There are many kind-hearted souls who tell you that it's a wonderful thing when your children leave home, that you will find your "sea legs" within 2-3 months and will be enjoying ballroom dancing lessons in no time at all.
As with most things, however, it's an individual journey. There are times when I feel focused and alive, ready to take on the world. There are other times I just miss each of them terribly.
I also miss the feeling of purpose that I had as a parent. What can replace that? Parenting is so important, and for a number of years it was all-consuming. Who am I now that that period is over?
The answer to that question cannot be rushed, and it requires some experimentation. So the ballroom dancing classes may be a good idea, and the interest may not last long. Try lots of things and some will stick. Activities, volunteer work, a new business. Somehow, some way, a new person emerges.
The nest is not empty ....... I've just expanded my living space ......
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